Expecting Too Much Too Soon

Dear Dog Lady,

I am an elderly lady who recently lost my last dog to an unexpected illness. I'd had the dog for nine years and was devastated. I live alone and was very lonely so I adopted a three-year-old beagle mix from the New Hampshire Humane Society. Crissy is a well-behaved nice dog in every respect except she is not at all playful. She has no interest in the many toys I have bought for her, nor will she play with me when I am out in the yard. I miss the joy and companionship of a playful dog. Do you have any suggestions for teaching her how to be more interactive with me?

Lelia, Nashua, NH

Lelia, you are expecting too much too soon. Dog Lady suspects Crissy is an unplayful prissy because she’s still getting the lay of Lelia’s land. Your rescued beagle mix must adjust to you and her new circumstances. You were very kind to adopt her out of a shelter, but, remember, these foundling dogs need time to trust.

In all major respects -- personality and house training -- it sounds as if Crissy is a good dog. Be fair to her and let go of the need for your new dog to become just like your last dog. Enjoy Crissy as the unique and companionable creature she is.

For the time being, use further training as a playful exercise. Fill your pockets with treats when you’re out in the yard and call Crissy to come. Tell her to sit and stay. Each time she does a new trick, reward her with a yummy. Praise her in a very spirited voice. Dogs like the discipline and they love rewards for their good deeds. The more you work together, the more playfully you will bond.

Posted by Dog Lady at January 5, 2007 02:35 PM