Pooch Patience Is A Virtue

Dear Dog Lady,

My husband and I had a dog that died three months ago. Just two days ago we went to a shelter and adopted a one-year-old beagle mix. I don't know how to say it any more plainly: I am not sure if I want him. He's a nice dog, good with kids and cats it seems. He doesn't listen and whines the minute you leave the room. My husband says to give him a chance, but I am afraid we made a huge mistake. We can take Roscoe back to the shelter, which is a very nice no-kill shelter. I just don't feel a bond. Any advice?

Karrie, Babylon, NY

Karrie, adopting a dog from a shelter is not a cash ‘n’ carry deal. Please give Roscoe more time to bond with you and feel comfortable. Goodness knows what the poor dog has been through and, remember, he's not a pale imitation of the pet you lost. He’s another kind of animal. His beauty will shine in his imperfections and in his ability to warm your cold heart. Two days is not nearly enough time to bond with an animal. Dog Lady confesses she too was ready to give back her darling after two days. If after two months you’re still feeling ambivalent about keeping him, follow your instincts.

Dog Lady sides with your husband here. Throw your new critter a bone of patience.

Posted by Dog Lady at November 8, 2007 05:14 PM